Dogs have an uncanny ability to make us happy: They have quirky personalities, love us unconditionally, and help us slow our racing thoughts by Taylor Bennett | Apr 10, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology, Relationships Before I took my leap of faith and adopted my dog, Mila, I surveyed everyone in my life to see what they thought. Did they think I could handle it? Did they think it was a good idea? Did they think I was ready for the responsibility? The overwhelming answer…
Dogs improve your overall wellbeing: they help to reduce stress, promote an active lifestyle, strengthen your immune system, and more by Taylor Bennett | Apr 8, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology, Relationships In addition to providing love, support, and companionship, dogs are beneficial to our health and overall wellbeing. When we pet a dog, we form a bond and release the hormone oxytocin, which helps to relieve us of stress and anxiety. Dogs also promote an active lifestyle, which helps us to…
Aggression is inborn, but worsened or improved by one’s environment (Updated) by Taylor Bennett | Mar 19, 2019 | Anger Management, Mental Health Topics, Psychology We have long disagreed over whether aggressive behavior is inborn or learned—which has led to many research efforts, including the Bobo doll experiment. This study concluded that children become aggressive through observational learning; that is, through watching someone else conduct the same behavior. However, other studies disagree—or at least note…
Assertive vs. aggressive: What’s the difference? by Taylor Bennett | Mar 19, 2019 | Anger Management, Communication, Mental Health Topics, Psychology Assertive and aggressive behavior are two totally different approaches to communication and, often, confrontation. But one often reaps better benefits — learn about the difference between the two and which you should turn to. What Is the Difference Between Assertive and Aggressive? In my junior year of college, I spent…
What are the 5 thinking styles? Understanding different types of thinkers by Taylor Bennett | Mar 8, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology We employ different ways of thinking. Some of us take a creative approach, while others are more analytic; some are focused on the short-term, while others think about the long-term. While we all have unique minds, our tendencies have been summed up into five recognized thinking styles: synthesists, or the…
How can I catch a liar in the act? Here are 5 foolproof ways to tell if someone’s lying by Taylor Bennett | Feb 19, 2019 | Communication, Mental Health Topics, Psychology We all lie—we say we’re younger than we really are, we claim to be okay when we’re not, and we tell our friends they look great when they don’t. I stand by the argument that lying is okay in certain instances, such as these, when the effects are virtually harmless….
The Hawthorne effect: How the process of being watched affects our performance by Taylor Bennett | Feb 8, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology The Hawthorne effect says that increased observation equals increased productivity. This theory explains why we might perform better when our boss is in the room or when we’re working out with others. This effect was first observed during a series of experiments, which intended to understand how different factors at…
What is “flow,” and how can I experience it? Some say flow is the key to happiness by Taylor Bennett | Nov 23, 2018 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology, Self-Improvement Flow is a concept in positive psychology that refers to a state of being completely concentrated on the task at hand. Artists and athletes are known for entering flow, as they often “lose” themselves in their work, whether they’re painting a masterpiece or getting in the zone during a game….
The psychology of gratitude: 6 benefits of being thankful this Thanksgiving (Updated) by Taylor Bennett | Nov 19, 2018 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology Many of us celebrate Thanksgiving by helping ourselves to a plate stacked high with turkey, potatoes, green beans, and pumpkin pie—but the holiday isn’t just for eating delicious food! The whole point of Thanksgiving is to give thanks for all of your fortunes such as the incredible people in your…
Thanos: A Therapy Session, Diagnosis and Treatment by Mary Ingram, LMFT | May 30, 2018 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology WARNING: Movie spoilers included! Thanos: Sociopath with a Heart “…and then, to gain the Soul Stone, I killed my daughter, my Gamora, who was my everything…” By the time this client told me this about his past, I had already diagnosed him with both Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and Antisocial…
Person-Centered Therapy: The Best Approach to Therapy for Black Men and Women by Guest | May 30, 2018 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology According to Alisha Powell, licensed clinical social worker, “counseling for Black men and women needs to be rooted in person-centered therapy. Most don’t come into therapy wanting to be told that everything will be okay and that they shouldn’t worry,” she says. “It’s important to create a safe space for…
How Can Positive Affirmations Change My Life? by Taylor Bennett | May 4, 2018 | Mental Health Topics, Psychology, Self-Improvement Let’s get straight to business. First and foremost, what in the world are positive affirmations? Positive affirmations are statements that help us overcome those negative thoughts that clog up our minds. For example, “I forgive myself for my imperfections, I’m only human,” or simply, “I believe in myself and my…