We’ve all heard of choking. Those sports-related disasters when an athlete seems to crack under the pressure. It’s fascinating—and a little hard to watch. Scientists have begun to uncover the causes of choking, and identify the mental differences that separate athletes who are likely to choke, and those who aren’t Accordingly, choking is triggered by a specific mental mistake: Over thinking. The sequence of events typically goes like this: An athlete get’s nervous about performing He or she becomes self-conscious. He or she starts to fixate on every movement, trying to make sure that he or she doesn’t make an error Then, disaster strikes. People who choke can often recite back every thought they were having at the time, and every movement they were making—and trying not to. In contrast, athletes performing at their bests aren’t really thinking. Neuroscientifically speaking, their minds are pretty tranquil. They’re in the zone—they’re just doing. Ch0king doesn’t have to happen. It’s not an inevitable, and it’s not random. Also, Choking isn’t limited to sports – it can apply to test taking, public speaking, working while under review—or really, any performance-based activity. So, here are two tips to help prevent choking. Tip 1: De-escalate the Intensity of the Moment Golfers are most likely to choke on the 18th hole. Olympians are most likely to choke in the semi-finals or finals. It’s in these moments that the pressure is on. An athlete might think, “4 years of training—and only one chance to get the gold!” This type of thought borders on hyperbole, and it makes you nervous just thinking about it. So, if you find yourself having such thoughts, take a step back. Replace the intense thought, with a more rational one. Say, this is a big event. But it’s not the only event. This is just one of many competitions. This is only a day at the office. This is only a game. Or only a speech. It’s an honor to be here. I’m going to enjoy this to the end. This is just another brick in the wall. Our brains are not good at focusing on two ideas at once—it’s why we can’t read and have a conversation at the same time. Hence, these alternative rational thoughts will help to fill your mind with perspectives that lesson the magnitude of your performance situation. Tip 2: Use a “Holisitic Cue Word” Recently, two psychologists at the University of Western Australia, performed a study investigating the use of a “holistic cue word” to prevent choking. In the study, they asked participants (professional golfers) to focus on descriptive adjectives such as “smooth” or “balanced”. The results found that focusing on these words prevented choking in expert golfers. In fact, their performance was no longer affected by anxiety whatsoever. Some athletes do this automatically – Tiger Woods’s is said to be able to clear his mind at crucial points during tournaments. How does he do this? By fixating on banalities and cliches. Thinking stuff like “you never give up. You never give in. or You never accept anything but the best from yourself.” According to Tiger’s swing coach, these phrases have saved him countless times from becoming unraveled on the 18th hole. So, how well do you handle performance pressure? Have any techniques worked for you? Let us know your ideas in the comments.
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