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Our therapists offer domestic violence therapy in Durham, NC

Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance.

Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance. Scheduling is easy — call our team and they’ll help you find your perfect match.

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1,181 people sought domestic violence therapy help in North Carolina in the last year

Discover how starting domestic violence therapy can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Our Durham providers are currently booked, however we have 97 online providers available right now in North Carolina.
Winston-Salem
Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage, +22 more
Domestic Abuse, Anger, Coping Skills, Stress, Sexual Abuse, +2 more

Every person deserves an individualized counseling experience.

Raleigh
Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage, +22 more
Domestic Abuse, Anger, Coping Skills, Men’s Issues, Self Esteem, +3 more

As therapist, I believe that each client that I engage with has significant value.

Raleigh
JP Farley Corporation, Multi Plan PHCS, Oscar Health, +2 more
Military / Veteran, Medical / Health Issues, Domestic Abuse, LGBTQIA+, Anger, +19 more

I am a trauma survivor as well as a military veteran, and I am dedicated to being the best therapist I can be, which means providing individualized ca... I am a trauma survivor as well as a military veteran, and I am dedicated to being the best therapist I can be, which means providing individualized case management and staying up-to-date on cutting-edge trends and interventions. Read more

Raleigh
Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage, +22 more
Domestic Abuse, Narcissism, LGBTQIA+, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, +19 more

As a person who has had many life transitions and has been married to a man and now a woman, I am in the unique situation to have been exposed to so m... As a person who has had many life transitions and has been married to a man and now a woman, I am in the unique situation to have been exposed to so many challenges. Those experiences have made me more empathic and understanding of my patients. Read more

Wilmington
Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), Carelon, +12 more
Self Harm, Domestic Abuse, LGBTQIA+, Anger, Behavioral Issues, +11 more

Starting Domestic violence therapy

What is domestic violence therapy?

Domestic violence therapy is a specialized form of counseling that helps victims and their families heal from abusive relationships. It is a crucial component of the broader efforts to address and combat domestic violence, a pattern of abusive behaviors within intimate relationships that can encompass physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or economic abuse.

How does domestic violence therapy work?

In domestic violence therapy, therapists create a safe and supportive environment. Domestic violence therapy is often part of a broader support network that includes legal assistance, shelters, and community resources. Its aim is to break the cycle of abuse, promote safety, and foster healthier relationships.

Is domestic violence therapy conducted in person or online?

Domestic violence therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does domestic violence therapy last?

Domestic violence therapy can last for a few weeks, months, or longer, depending on the individual’s exact needs and preferences.

Need more help deciding?

Domestic Violence Counseling—Therapists in Durham, NC

Are you in an abusive relationship? Or, maybe you recently got out of one? Perhaps it’s been years since you left, but those memories are looming. Regardless of where you are in the process, you’re likely wondering: When is the right time to get counseling the domestic abuse? The answer is now.

If you feel like you’re suffering from the effects of an abusive relationship, it is the right time to seek counseling. The skilled and caring domestic violence counselors at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham are awaiting your call—our trained professional domestic violence counselors know just how to help you and will work alongside you to collect all of the pieces of your life again. All you have to do is give them the chance.

Understanding Signs and Implications of Domestic Abuse

Oftentimes, an individual denies the need for counseling because their partner rarely or never acts violently. The sad truth is, however, that abusers work in many ways. In addition to physical abuse, an abuser may use emotional, mental, or sexual abuse. The following behaviors are common signifiers of domestic abuse:

  • Name-calling
  • Threatening
  • Criticizing or blaming
  • Putting you down
  • Coercing you into sexual acts
  • Talking you out of going to work or school
  • Outright harming you or your kids

In any form—physical, emotional, mental, and sexual—abuse is wrong, as well as harmful. And the implications are often devastating. Some of these effects include:

  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  • Anxiety
  • Panic disorders
  • Depression
  • Alcohol and drug abuse
  • Social isolation
  • Ongoing aches and pains

The above conditions and psychosomatic disorders can hinder your life in more ways than one. Fortunately, however, getting the help you need from a trained counselor at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham can help you handle these and other fallouts from the abuse you’ve lived through.

The Pattern and Repetition of Domestic Abuse

No two cases of domestic abuse are exactly the same, but a similar pattern proves to emerge: the couple enters and exits the honeymoon phase, tension builds, and then the abuse recurs. Take a look at the stages of this pattern below.

The Honeymoon: When a couple first enters a relationship, everything is new and exciting. Feelings are predominantly positive and they’re focused on making each other happy. This is why we refer to those first few weeks or months as the “honeymoon stage.” Unfortunately, however, these happy, peaceful times are what make domestic violence so inconceivable, so hurtful. When it comes to the honeymoon stage in the domestic abuse cycle, this is the time for apologies and reassurance. Violent partners say they’re sorry and promise it will never happen again. The couple then looks hopefully to the future.

The Tension: As the honeymoon stage comes to a close, the couple enters the tension-building stage. Here, tension returns and continues to build. The victim of the abuse often tries to ignore returning signs of abusive behavior, does their best to keep their partner calm, and even refuses to believe the tension could escalate further—into the abuse they’ve previously experienced.

The Abuse: The aforementioned tension escalates and escalates until the violent partner chooses to abuse again—physically, emotionally, mentally, or sexually. It’s important to note that it is never the victim’s fault; the responsibility is solely the abuser’s. Another significant note is that domestic violence is illegal. Nobody deserves to be abused and left with the detrimental effects that follow.

Start Domestic Abuse Counseling at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham Today

As you read through the warning signs, the implications, and the cycle of domestic violence, did anything strike a chord? We know just how hard it can be to admit, even recognize, when a relationship is unhealthy. But doing so is crucial to your well-being and starting on the road to recovery.

Many people have incorrect beliefs about what exactly it means to get domestic violence counseling. Some suspect it’ll help them come to terms with what they’ve gone through, but they often fail to understand all of the different ways it can help. This is because they often don’t realize the extent of the impact of their abuse.

You can trust that the counselors at Thriveworks are willing, able, and eager to help you. They’ll help you in more ways than you can count, you just have to give them the chance. Give Thriveworks Counseling in Durham a call at (919) 629-3854 to schedule an appointment today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Durham therapists and counselors accept 23 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage

  • Carelon

  • Caresource

  • Carolina Behavioral Health Alliance (CBHA)

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

  • Devoted Health | Medicare Advantage

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

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Self-pay costs at Durham
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

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Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

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The ease of setting up appointments are great and my therapist really listens to me, makes me feel comfortable and offers good advice.
Amber Apr 2025
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My therapist is very supportive. Working with her has been a great experience.
Erin Apr 2025
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I think for the future, allowing clients to put their preferred name and pronouns in their profiles would be more affirming. What I enjoy the most is that my provider is really good at fostering a safe therapeutic environment and they respect my queerness. During each session, I have become enlightened and motivated to work towards my goals. My provider is reliable, punctual, and understanding. They are amazing!!
Read more I think for the future, allowing clients to put their preferred name and pronouns in their profiles would be more affirming. What I enjoy the most is that my provider is really good at fostering a safe therapeutic environment and they respect my queerness. During each session, I have become enlightened and motivated to work towards my goals. My provider is reliable, punctual, and understanding. They are amazing!!
Donella Apr 2025
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It's nice to have in person therapy available most days, but virtual if it's ever required. The office is conveniently located & clean. . I'm SO appreciative of Kierra. She is a positive and reassuring person. The exercises she has done with me have stuck in my mind. I'm thankful she's willing to meet with me in the morning before I go to work.
Read more It's nice to have in person therapy available most days, but virtual if it's ever required. The office is conveniently located & clean. . I'm SO appreciative of Kierra. She is a positive and reassuring person. The exercises she has done with me have stuck in my mind. I'm thankful she's willing to meet with me in the morning before I go to work.
Alyx Apr 2025
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I've had a very positive experience working with Darryl McCarroll. He has been incredibly supportive, insightful, and compassionate during a challenging time in my life. His guidance and approach have made a meaningful difference, and I'm very appreciative of the help he's provided.
Read more I've had a very positive experience working with Darryl McCarroll. He has been incredibly supportive, insightful, and compassionate during a challenging time in my life. His guidance and approach have made a meaningful difference, and I'm very appreciative of the help he's provided.
Kayla Apr 2025
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She created a very welcoming and understanding environment that helped to ease my nerves about going in.
Alexander Mar 2025
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Darryl has been great to keep me moving forward with my therapy and progress. I am learning a lot about myself and thankful that I feel safe in moving forward.
Emily Mar 2025
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I liked the fact I was heard, and the hope for healing.
Gary Mar 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Durham is located off Fayetteville Road, in the Sutton Station shopping center, next to Regional Pediatrics. We currently share a building with Nantucket Grill and Bela Trio Day Spa. Parking is located in front of the building and around the complex.

Phone number

(919) 642-4903

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