self-worth

Struggling with confidence doesn’t just affect you in job interviews and big social situations. It can also look like a steady stream of self-doubt that undermines almost every decision you make. You reread texts three times before sending them, then immediately wonder if you sound annoying. You talk yourself out…

You find yourself constantly second-guessing decisions you used to make easily. You feel guilty for setting boundaries with someone who hurt you—maybe you even worry you abandoned them. You wonder if you’re overreacting, or if what you experienced really was that bad. These are all signs of narcissistic abuse, and…

If you’ve succumbed to a full-blown temper tantrum as an adult, you’ve likely come face-to-face with your inner child (even if you didn’t realize it mid-meltdown). Your inner child isn’t a mere flashback to your past self—it’s a piece of who you are now. “There’s a space inside of us…

In some settings, perfectionism can be an excellent asset to have, allowing someone to be extremely detailed and precise in their work. However, maintaining this level of precision can be exhausting and stressful.  Many things can cause someone to become a perfectionist, but it’s important to manage the high expectations…

There are many closely related “self-” words including self-worth, self-esteem, self-respect, self-value, and so on.  But two appear to mean virtually the same exact thing: self-worth and self-esteem. If you have self-worth, this means that you value yourself – you believe that you’re a good person who is worthy of…

Self-esteem and self-confidence can be hard to develop, but both are key to loving yourself and living a fulfilled and happy life. Even so, that can be easier said than done. Low self-esteem can result from a variety of factors, including past relationships, negative coping strategies, and overthinking to name…

I dated my ex-boyfriend for six years. We met at school and started going on little dates every weekend: eating dinner at our favorite chain restaurant, seeing a movie at the local theatre, spending time with the other’s family. And as our relationship progressed, so did the amount of time…