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My go-to approach for helping people in couples/marriage counseling is emotion-focused therapy. Through EFT, couples are able to identify destructive patterns that become a barrier to them and hinder their ability to grow and bond. Being able to identify the barriers that keep us apart allows us to heal and progress in a healthy manner.
My go-to approach for helping people in couples/marriage counseling is to focus on the feelings and meaning of events instead of the details. I find the best benefit in this because it allows for the partners in the couple to better understand each other and get to this understanding faster.
Some of the tools that I teach in couples/marriage counseling are:
I teach the following tools in couples/marriage counseling:
Clients will tell you they are making meaningful progress without saying a word. When counseling first begins, couples are sitting as far away from each other as possible. As they begin to progress you can see their body language change towards each other. They begin smiling more, communicating more meaningfully, hearing each other, and sitting closer together. This is a clear sign that they are clearly moving towards a more meaningful relationship.
I know a client is making meaningful progress in couples/marriage counseling when that person is able to effectively validate and empathize with their partner. These skills, in conjunction with the appropriate use of “I” statements, are foundational in the improvement of relationships.
Clients can supplement their time in couples/marriage counseling by spending quality time together. Reading a book together, taking a walk, riding bikes, jigsaw puzzles, or even putting LEGOs together are all good activities. Doing anything that is non-threatening, yet allows you to spend quality time together, only enhances the counseling experience.
Clients can supplement their time in couples/marriage counseling by continuing the conversations discussed in sessions at home while using and practicing the skills learned. It is important that couples practice these skills when they are out of the office and are in the real world.
Going into your first couples/marriage counseling session, be prepared to invest in your relationship. Enter with an open mind and hope for the future. Be prepared to let go of the challenges of the past and recognize that we all play a part in this relationship. While it took time for you to get where you are, it will be worth the time invested to begin moving forward.
To prepare for your first couples/marriage counseling session, you should work with your partner to determine what your goals are in regard to counseling. Be able to answer the question, “What does not needing marriage counseling anymore look like?” It is also important to come to the first session with an open mind and willingness to hear your partner's true feelings.
Couples therapy and marriage counseling, also known as relationship counseling, helps couples work through their specific relationship issues. Some examples of common focuses within couples therapy and marriage counseling include:
The types of therapy used in couples and marriage counseling include:
At Thriveworks, Couples/marriage therapy is led by licensed professionals — often licensed marriage and family therapists (LMFTs) — who are experts in their field and best-equipped to help couples.
The Gottman Method of couples therapy is a research-supported approach designed to enhance relationships by bolstering the bond between partners, resolving conflicts, and fostering shared meaning in their relationship through comprehensive assessments and tailored interventions that improve communication, trust, and the overall health of the partnership.
If you’re facing persistent relationship problems, communication breakdowns, or unresolved conflicts that are impacting your emotional well-being and happiness, Couples/marriage therapy may be beneficial for you.
While marriage and couple’s counseling is typically recommended for couples who are experiencing persistent or severe relationship issues, any relationship can benefit from attending these sessions.
Marriage and couples counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you and your partner.
On average, couples attend marriage and couples counseling for 12 weeks. However, couples & marriage counseling may last longer or shorter, dependent on the couples’ needs, the challenges they’d like to work through, and the pace of their progress.
At Thriveworks, we accept most major insurance plans, allowing many clients to pay as little as $0–$50 per session with their co-pay. We also offer self-pay options for those out-of-network or without insurance. Self-pay rates for talk therapy range from $160 to $240 for intake sessions and $135 to $195 for follow-ups, depending on your state. For psychiatry services, self-pay intake sessions are $255–$375, with follow-ups ranging from $175–$300, also varying by state. More information on current self-pay costs is available on our pricing page.
Sometimes giving your all in a relationship means looking for outside help. Couples therapists and marriage counselors offer partners a safe and open space to discuss their issues and find common ground to get to a better place. It doesn’t matter if you and your partner have only been dating for six months or have been married for over 15 years. Help is available and you can fix the cracks in your relationship.
If you think you could benefit from working with a couples counselor or marriage therapist, reach out to Thriveworks Counseling in Toms River, NJ. Our mental health professionals are readily available to help you and your partner. You can even start as soon as this week! Just give us a call to get started.
Maybe you no longer see eye to eye. Maybe your partner won’t stop spending money, and it’s burdening you both. Or, maybe your partner was unfaithful and you’re trying to rebuild your relationship. If you have a problem, no matter how big or small you think it is, chances are you would benefit from speaking to a professional about your concerns
Here is a list of common reasons why couples seek counseling:
Sometimes, you might not know what the particular problem is but feel that the spark has faded. That’s okay too. If you don’t feel connected anymore or really don’t know the root cause of your problems, the counselors and therapists at Thriveworks in Toms River can help you and your loved one.
If you and your partner have never been to therapy before, you might be a little wary of what to expect. Don’t worry; it’s not as bad as you think. Therapy and counseling at our office are designed with you and your partner in mind. Not only do we aim to provide you both with the most comfortable and judgement-free space, but we also want to specifically address your unique goals and challenges. To do this, your therapist or counselor will create a custom treatment plan that is centered around your relationship needs. Then, with this custom treatment plan, they will use different methods and techniques to address and overcome your issues. Some of the tools could include:
These are just a few of the things you could learn during your time with a therapist or counselor at Thriveworks in Toms River. We will help you and your partner make tough decisions and cater to your individual needs. We don’t want you to leave our office without the tools and skills you need to move forward together in a happier, healthier manner.
Are you and your partner ready to make the meaningful changes in your relationship that you’ve been longing for? We’re prepared to help you get started. To schedule an appointment, give our office a call or visit our online booking portal. We offer our clients competitive benefits, such as flexible scheduling options, online counseling, and we work with your schedule to see you as soon as possible.
We can’t wait to hear from you and help you and your loved one start to thrive!
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