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As a licensed therapist, I look forward to collaboratively creating therapeutic goals with you that best serve your needs and help...
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As a licensed therapist, I look forward to collaboratively creating therapeutic goals with you that best serve your needs and help you overcome the difficulties that you are facing today.
Jose Desiderio is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of New Jersey and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of New York. Jose has over 8 years of experience in the mental health field focused on treating anxiety, depression, stress, anger management, interpersonal relationship issues, life transitions, and men's issues. Throughout his career, Jose has been passionate about helping adolescents, adults, and couples address their concerns in a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive space.
Jose completed his Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at the College of Staten Island. He utilizes an integrative approach in therapy consisting of multiple treatment modalities such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic theory, dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), solution focused techniques, and mindfulness exercises. Jose believes that the foundation to therapy is building a connection through highlighting individuality, embracing humor, and sharing belief that it will get better.
Life is filled with challenges and stressors that often stand in our way. Jose is confident that he will be able to support you through these difficult times as you gain healthier perspectives and learn useful coping skills that will aid you on your path. Jose looks forward to doing his best to help you manage your mental health concerns and achieve your goals.
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As your therapist and fellow traveler on life's journey, I’m here to support you on your path toward well-being and a life filled ...
As your therapist and fellow traveler on life's journey, I’m here to support you on your path toward well-being and a life filled with meaning.
Shua Waxman takes a warm, down-to-earth approach and works collaboratively with clients to explore their struggles, hopes, and goals. He sees therapy as a space to look inward with honesty and care, like holding up a mirror to better understand yourself and what you need. In sessions, Shua helps clients notice emotional patterns, ask difficult but clarifying questions, and reflect on the parts of themselves that often get overlooked. He offers a steady presence in painful moments while also helping clients find ways to move forward. Each session blends reflection, emotional support, and practical tools.
He holds a Master of Social Work from Wurzweiler School of Social Work and is currently pursuing a Doctor of Social Work at Long Island University. Shua specializes in trauma, relationship issues, anxiety, and depression. His work draws from cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, EMDR, and internal family systems. These approaches help clients process difficult experiences, build insight, and make meaningful, lasting changes.
Struggling with stress or emotional pain is part of being human. You don’t have to go through it alone. Shua is here to support you at your pace, with compassion, honesty, and curiosity. When you’re ready, reach out and take the first step.
After a critical health scare, after which I had to learn how to walk again, I knew that helping people, especially those who stru...
After a critical health scare, after which I had to learn how to walk again, I knew that helping people, especially those who struggle with weight, body image, disordered eating, trauma, depression, and anxiety, was what I wanted to do.
I’m Sharon Ryan, a Licensed Professional Counselor with 8 years of experience supporting children, teens, and adults through a wide range of challenges. I specialize in eating disorders, anxiety, depression, self-worth, trauma, and body image. My background includes certification as a personal trainer and bariatric counselor, and expertise in weight and body neutrality. I believe that understanding the connection between mind and body is key to lasting healing and growth.
I earned my Master’s in Professional Counseling from William Paterson University. I draw on evidence-based modalities including eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, cognitive behavioral therapy, grief counseling, play therapy, and holistic approaches. My therapeutic style is client-centered, trauma-informed, and rooted in whole-person health.
I welcome clients ready to take the next step toward healing with compassion and support. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, body image, depression, trauma, or relationships, I provide a safe and nonjudgmental space to explore challenges and build resilience. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering your strengths and finding peace in daily life.
As someone who has faced many challenges and adversities in life, I know how important it is to feel safe and supported, and I am ...
As someone who has faced many challenges and adversities in life, I know how important it is to feel safe and supported, and I am here to provide a compassionate space where you do not have to face life's challenges alone.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 8 years of experience providing therapeutic support to adolescents, adults, couples, and families. My clinical experience includes working with individuals facing anxiety, depression, grief, bipolar disorder, addiction and recovery, stress management, adjustment disorder, and perinatal and postpartum mood disorders. I strive to create a welcoming and supportive environment where clients feel at ease and the process of beginning therapy is as smooth as possible.
I earned my Master of Social Work from Monmouth University. My approach is collaborative and non-judgmental, drawing on evidence-based methods such as cognitive behavioral therapy, client-centered therapy, strengths-based perspectives, and motivational interviewing to best support my clients.
My goal is to help clients build resilience and create a personalized path to healing that reflects their unique needs and life experiences. I am dedicated to walking alongside clients as they navigate challenges, discover new insights, and work toward meaningful and lasting change.
Rooted in both lived and clinical experience, I am grateful to preach what I practice and support clients in discovering the power...
Rooted in both lived and clinical experience, I am grateful to preach what I practice and support clients in discovering the power of healing.
I am a Licensed Associate Counselor with 2 years of experience. My counseling approach is person-centered and tailored to meet each individual’s biopsychosocial needs. I specialize in working with adolescents through older adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma, mood and personality disorders, substance use, self-harm, and emotional dysregulation. My professional background includes experience across outpatient programs, detox units, inpatient hospitals, and university counseling centers.
I earned my Master’s in Counseling from Stockton University. I integrate evidence-based practices, including cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, rational emotive behavior therapy, and mindfulness.
I believe healing requires consistency, patience, and courage. My goal is to create a safe, inclusive, and affirming space where clients can explore their emotions and develop greater self-awareness. I am honored to walk alongside each client, offering empathy, encouragement, and tools to support lifelong well-being.
Drawing from my experiences as a mother of 3 children (1 of whom is on the autism spectrum)and my own journey through loss and tee...
Drawing from my experiences as a mother of 3 children (1 of whom is on the autism spectrum)and my own journey through loss and teenage depression, I understand firsthand the importance of compassion, resilience, and hope in the healing process.
I am a Licensed Associate Counselor in New Jersey with 4 years of experience. I work with children, teens, and adults navigating anxiety, depression, and mood disorders with psychotic features. I also specialize in supporting neurodiverse individuals, including those on the autism spectrum, helping them strengthen coping skills, emotional regulation, and self-confidence through empathy and collaboration.
I earned my Master’s in Counseling from the University of Phoenix. My approach is person-centered, blending cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and mindfulness-based strategies. I strive to create a warm, inclusive space where clients feel heard, supported, and empowered to achieve emotional growth.
I bring personal and professional insight to my work. I understand the challenges families face and help them find balance, connection, and hope. My goal is to guide each client toward peace, confidence, and meaningful, lasting change.
I strive to create a strong and collaborative therapeutic relationship where my clients can feel safe and supported....
I strive to create a strong and collaborative therapeutic relationship where my clients can feel safe and supported.
Greta Buerkle is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience. Having lived and worked in NYC for many years, she feels blessed to have a diverse clinical work background serving her clients. She is experienced in assisting with a broad range of presenting problems including depression, anxiety, chronic illness, and relationships. Greta assists clients in the development of self-awareness, personal understanding, and effective coping with difficult experiences and uncomfortable emotions. Greta’s sensitivity is the gift that allows her to connect with many of her clients.
Greta received her Master of Science in Social Work from Columbia's School of Social Work, specializing in Advanced Clinical Practice. She integrates humanistic, holistic, and cognitive behavioral therapies that support the mind, body, and spirit. Greta’s therapeutic style is client-centered, strengths-based, and psychodynamic.
Greta is nonjudgmental and accepting and incorporates mindfulness-based stress reduction, emotional intelligence development, rational emotive behavioral therapy, and self-compassion practices to support her clients. If you are ready to begin your wellness journey, schedule your first appointment today!
One of my gifts is the ability to build a rapport with the individuals who participate counseling with me....
One of my gifts is the ability to build a rapport with the individuals who participate counseling with me.
Michelle Nirenberg is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). Additionally, Michelle is a certified Trauma Counselor (TC) for adults, adolescents, and children. With over 16 years of experience also has a strong affinity for working with first responders and individuals who have either witnessed or experienced various forms of trauma.
Michelle earned her Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision (CES) with a specialization in Trauma and Crisis, and a Master's Degree in Mental Health Counseling (MHC). She utilizes an eclectic treatment approach.
Michelle looks forward working with you to address your mental health needs as a team. If you're ready to schedule a session, reach out to book with her today.
I believe that life is a journey and my role is to provide guidance and support to help you find your way....
I believe that life is a journey and my role is to provide guidance and support to help you find your way.
Leslie Small is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 15 years of experience. He has worked with adults, teens, couples, and other populations dealing with a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, mood disorders, and many other concerns. Leslie has spent time in community mental health and private practice settings. His broad background enables him to assist a wide range of people.
Leslie received his Master's degree in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University. He utilizes a humanistic clinical approach that focuses on connecting with his clients and helping them discover their inherent strengths so that they can be the best version of themselves.
Leslie believes the partnership between therapist and client is the foundation for success and growth. He promises to provide support while fostering capabilities, setting goals, and developing a plan for life’s challenges. Schedule an appointment with him today!
We have been living in challenging times for quite awhile. It seems to be getting even more difficult--just when we think that it...
We have been living in challenging times for quite awhile. It seems to be getting even more difficult--just when we think that it can't get any harder. Family, financial and social stressors can impact our everyday functioning and take a toll on important aspects of our lives. I have seen this with so many individuals for some time, and understand the effect.
Staci DiMattia is a licensed independent practitioner in New Jersey with over 25 years of professional work experience in multiple clinical settings–with 17 of those years as a therapist; helping clients with a variety of concerns, including but not limited to stress and anxiety, mood disorder-related symptoms, substance abuse and recovery, relationship issues, coping with life changes, pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum difficulties, as well as interpersonal and family conflicts. Born and raised in New Jersey, Staci completed her undergraduate and graduate work at Rutgers University, New Brunswick and Monmouth University, respectively. She has worked in a variety of settings throughout her career as a behavioral health clinician, and when she isn't working, dedicates a great deal of her time within her community. A common theme throughout both her professional and private life is in providing assistance and support to individuals, children and families by meeting them wherever they are, with the hope that she will leave them in a better place from when they initially found each other.
Staci works with her clients to create a relationship of trust within an open, inclusive and safe environment, where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step toward seeking a more fulfilling and happier life is a STRENGTH--as it is an important and healthy step toward wellness! She is here and will be glad to support you with this process--if you are willing to reach out and ready to do some work, schedule an appointment with Staci today!
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My go-to approach for helping people in couples/marriage counseling is emotion-focused therapy. Through EFT, couples are able to identify destructive patterns that become a barrier to them and hinder their ability to grow and bond. Being able to identify the barriers that keep us apart allows us to heal and progress in a healthy manner.
My go-to approach for helping people in couples/marriage counseling is to focus on the feelings and meaning of events instead of the details. I find the best benefit in this because it allows for the partners in the couple to better understand each other and get to this understanding faster.
Some of the tools that I teach in couples/marriage counseling are:
I teach the following tools in couples/marriage counseling:
Clients will tell you they are making meaningful progress without saying a word. When counseling first begins, couples are sitting as far away from each other as possible. As they begin to progress you can see their body language change towards each other. They begin smiling more, communicating more meaningfully, hearing each other, and sitting closer together. This is a clear sign that they are clearly moving towards a more meaningful relationship.
I know a client is making meaningful progress in couples/marriage counseling when that person is able to effectively validate and empathize with their partner. These skills, in conjunction with the appropriate use of “I” statements, are foundational in the improvement of relationships.
Clients can supplement their time in couples/marriage counseling by spending quality time together. Reading a book together, taking a walk, riding bikes, jigsaw puzzles, or even putting LEGOs together are all good activities. Doing anything that is non-threatening, yet allows you to spend quality time together, only enhances the counseling experience.
Clients can supplement their time in couples/marriage counseling by continuing the conversations discussed in sessions at home while using and practicing the skills learned. It is important that couples practice these skills when they are out of the office and are in the real world.
Going into your first couples/marriage counseling session, be prepared to invest in your relationship. Enter with an open mind and hope for the future. Be prepared to let go of the challenges of the past and recognize that we all play a part in this relationship. While it took time for you to get where you are, it will be worth the time invested to begin moving forward.
To prepare for your first couples/marriage counseling session, you should work with your partner to determine what your goals are in regard to counseling. Be able to answer the question, “What does not needing marriage counseling anymore look like?” It is also important to come to the first session with an open mind and willingness to hear your partner's true feelings.
Couples therapy and marriage counseling, also known as relationship counseling, helps couples work through their specific relationship issues. Some examples of common focuses within couples therapy and marriage counseling include:
The types of therapy used in couples and marriage counseling include:
At Thriveworks, Couples/marriage therapy is led by licensed professionals — often licensed marriage and family therapists (LMFTs) — who are experts in their field and best-equipped to help couples.
The Gottman Method of couples therapy is a research-supported approach designed to enhance relationships by bolstering the bond between partners, resolving conflicts, and fostering shared meaning in their relationship through comprehensive assessments and tailored interventions that improve communication, trust, and the overall health of the partnership.
If you’re facing persistent relationship problems, communication breakdowns, or unresolved conflicts that are impacting your emotional well-being and happiness, Couples/marriage therapy may be beneficial for you.
While marriage and couple’s counseling is typically recommended for couples who are experiencing persistent or severe relationship issues, any relationship can benefit from attending these sessions.
Marriage and couples counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you and your partner.
On average, couples attend marriage and couples counseling for 12 weeks. However, couples & marriage counseling may last longer or shorter, dependent on the couples’ needs, the challenges they’d like to work through, and the pace of their progress.
At Thriveworks, we accept most major insurance plans, allowing many clients to pay as little as $0–$50 per session with their co-pay. We also offer self-pay options for those out-of-network or without insurance. Self-pay rates for talk therapy range from $160 to $240 for intake sessions and $135 to $195 for follow-ups, depending on your state. For psychiatry services, self-pay intake sessions are $255–$375, with follow-ups ranging from $175–$300, also varying by state. More information on current self-pay costs is available on our pricing page.
Sometimes giving your all in a relationship means looking for outside help. Couples therapists and marriage counselors offer partners a safe and open space to discuss their issues and find common ground to get to a better place. It doesn’t matter if you and your partner have only been dating for six months or have been married for over 15 years. Help is available and you can fix the cracks in your relationship.
If you think you could benefit from working with a couples counselor or marriage therapist, reach out to Thriveworks Counseling in Toms River, NJ. Our mental health professionals are readily available to help you and your partner. You can even start as soon as this week! Just give us a call to get started.
Maybe you no longer see eye to eye. Maybe your partner won’t stop spending money, and it’s burdening you both. Or, maybe your partner was unfaithful and you’re trying to rebuild your relationship. If you have a problem, no matter how big or small you think it is, chances are you would benefit from speaking to a professional about your concerns
Here is a list of common reasons why couples seek counseling:
Sometimes, you might not know what the particular problem is but feel that the spark has faded. That’s okay too. If you don’t feel connected anymore or really don’t know the root cause of your problems, the counselors and therapists at Thriveworks in Toms River can help you and your loved one.
If you and your partner have never been to therapy before, you might be a little wary of what to expect. Don’t worry; it’s not as bad as you think. Therapy and counseling at our office are designed with you and your partner in mind. Not only do we aim to provide you both with the most comfortable and judgement-free space, but we also want to specifically address your unique goals and challenges. To do this, your therapist or counselor will create a custom treatment plan that is centered around your relationship needs. Then, with this custom treatment plan, they will use different methods and techniques to address and overcome your issues. Some of the tools could include:
These are just a few of the things you could learn during your time with a therapist or counselor at Thriveworks in Toms River. We will help you and your partner make tough decisions and cater to your individual needs. We don’t want you to leave our office without the tools and skills you need to move forward together in a happier, healthier manner.
Are you and your partner ready to make the meaningful changes in your relationship that you’ve been longing for? We’re prepared to help you get started. To schedule an appointment, give our office a call or visit our online booking portal. We offer our clients competitive benefits, such as flexible scheduling options, online counseling, and we work with your schedule to see you as soon as possible.
We can’t wait to hear from you and help you and your loved one start to thrive!
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