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Lynchburg

I can't fix your problems, but I can help you develop the tools you need to find a solution that works for you....

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McLean

As a woman who understands the struggles of anxiety, depression, and trauma, I can help in managing the symptoms of these concerns...

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Blacksburg

I believe that the greatest struggle in life is the battle within yourself and that the trials and tribulations you go through can...

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Newport News

As a military spouse and mother of 3 teenagers and young adults, I bring a deep, personal understanding of life transitions and th...

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Richmond

I am committed to offering a compassionate and nurturing space where clients feel safe to explore their feelings, heal from their ...

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Lynchburg

I am looking forward to meeting with you to assist you in the healing process....

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Lynchburg

I am here to support and guide you through your counseling journey and help you achieve your mental health goals....

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Williamsburg

I understand the intersectionality of age, gender, race, religion, and the various cultural differences that make up our very dive...

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Lynchburg

Megan is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Virginia who has 10 years of experience in working with youth, adolesce...

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Alexandria

With over 30 years of counseling experience, I look forward to assisting you in working through your issues to achieve positive ou...

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Henrico

Patricia "Tricia" McCarty is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who enjoys helping people work through life transitions, addiction...

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Lynchburg

Life comes with struggles — at times we all need a safe place to be heard in order to understand how best to navigate emotions and...

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Newport News

I am a therapist who gets what it’s like to juggle career, relationships, and healing from ADHD, anxiety, or past trauma. I’m here...

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Newport News

 I believe that every individual can get through difficulties that arise in life and sometimes we need some help. I am passionate...

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Newport News

Life can be challenging and full of ups and downs. As a therapist and a human, I understand the importance of wanting to gain unde...

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Lynchburg

As a recent counseling graduate passionate about mental health, I understand the challenges of navigating life transitions and fin...

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Lynchburg

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Virginia Beach

I am passionate about aiding those in difficult situations to focus on their strengths and build on them....

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Richmond

I know therapy takes real vulnerability, so I bring my full, authentic self to meet clients with connection and meaningful change ...

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Newport News

I believe you are the expert on your story, and our collaborative partnership will find effective ways to improve your quality of ...

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Richmond

Adam Alderson is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of Virginia who has over 11 years of experience providing cl...

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Roanoke

As a Christian Therapist, I understand the importance of a holistic approach that includes mental, physical, and spiritual health....

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Newport News

I am a strong advocate of empowering my clients to be the best version of who they are in order to succeed and go far physically a...

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Reston

As a survivor of domestic violence, cancer, and family members in active addiction, I understand the importance of having a safe s...

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Alexandria

I am a seasoned and experienced Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about wellness and providing a nonjudgmental and...

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Lynchburg

As a married mother of two who works daily to manage chronic medical challenges, I can empathize with the unique level of support ...

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Charlottesville

Having been on the other side of the screen myself, wondering if I could truly open up to someone, I understand that this work req...

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Richmond

"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers." –Proverbs 11:14...

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Alexandria

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Richmond

As a woman of color from a multi-ethnic background, I understand the importance of addressing one's mental health and finding heal...

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Newport News

As a military spouse, mother, and first-generation college-educated individual, I understand what it is like to face unique challe...

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Charlottesville

As a marriage and family therapist who has experienced divorce, I understand the challenge that relationships can present even whe...

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Woodbridge

As a blue-collar middle-aged native of Northeast Tennessee and Southwest Virginia, I can relate to the cultural, vocational, famil...

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Lynchburg

I firmly believe that the counseling process is a collaborative one, and I am excited to walk alongside you during this journey....

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Alexandria

As a parent myself, I know how much you care about your child doing well and getting along in school....

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Richmond

There is no progress without change, and today can be the day for you!...

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Virginia Beach

Karen Todaro is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Virginia who has 41 years of experience working with adults, co...

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Chesterfield

As an LPC-Resident with 20 years of experience in the mental health field, I would like to help you move past barriers that keep y...

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Lynchburg

I am passionate about assisting individuals and couples who wish to improve their relationships and achieve their personal goals t...

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Alexandria

I have many years of experience which makes me confident in my ability to help you achieve your goals and improve your life....

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McLean

Elizabeth (Liz) Malin is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with over 7 years of experience in treating adults, teens, and fa...

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Chesapeake

As an African-American women, I understand the challenges of balancing family issues, career, and racial inequalities....

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Alexandria

Jessica Lee is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 3 years of experience working with children, adults, and familie...

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Lynchburg

Your trauma is not your fault, but healing is your responsibility....

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Williamsburg

My approach to all people is one of curiosity rather than judgment; as a clinician, I aim to listen and respond with objectivity a...

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Virginia Beach

I am passionate about supporting individuals in their journey towards improved mental health and well-being....

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Chesterfield

As a psychotherapist, pastor, mother and wife, I have a wide breadth of experience and knowledge that helps me identify and relate...

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Richmond

As a woman who has overcome multiple life challenges, I want to assist you with resiliency. I'm going to meet you wherever you are...

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Williamsburg

I am a mother, wife, and woman who understands that life has unexpected twists and turns that make us who we are but do not define...

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Blacksburg

I believe, that most often times, it takes an individual to experience significant pain or dissatisfaction in their life in order ...

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Starting Infidelity counseling in Abingdon

What is infidelity counseling?

Infidelity counseling is a specialized therapeutic approach designed for couples grappling with the aftermath of one or more partner’s infidelity. It offers a nurturing and non-judgmental environment where both individuals can delve into the underlying reasons behind the breach of trust, openly express their feelings, and collaboratively strive to mend their relationship. The overarching objective of infidelity counseling is to either facilitate a path to reconciliation, should both partners desire it, or guide them through the process of separation or divorce with clarity and empathy.

How does infidelity counseling work?

Infidelity counseling combines various therapeutic techniques, such as individual and couples therapy, cognitive behavioral approaches for changing destructive thought patterns, communication skills training for conflict resolution, Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) to rebuild trust, narrative therapy to reframe relationship narratives, and mindfulness practices for managing intense emotions. These methods work together to foster self-awareness, emotional healing, and the reconstruction of trust, leading to a healthier, more resilient relationship.

Is infidelity counseling conducted in person or online?

Infidelity counseling at Thriveworks Abingdon, VA is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does infidelity counseling last?

The number of sessions needed for infidelity counseling can greatly vary based on the specific needs of the individuals or couples involved and the complexity of the issues being addressed. Thriveworks infidelity counseling in Abingdon, VA typically includes multiple sessions spanning from several weeks to several months, with the exact number of sessions decided in consultation with the therapist while considering the progress made during therapy and the therapeutic goals.

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Infidelity and Adultery Therapy – Counselors and Therapists in Bristol, VA

If your marriage is suffering because of infidelity, there is help. Therapists and counselors at Thriveworks are professionally licensed and credentialed and have worked with couples who have experienced infidelity in their relationships. A therapist will work with you to uncover other underlying problems in the marriage, help find resolution to the infidelity and work on strategies to help the marriage become strong again.

Reasons for Infidelity

It is devastating for the victim of infidelity to find out the person he trusted more than anyone else in the world broke an emotional bond. There are many emotions that roil around, including anger, grief and distrust. One of the first questions a person may ask is what caused the spouse to cheat. The following are some of the reasons that people have chosen to commit infidelity.

  • One of the most common reasons people commit adultery is because of a lack of sexual satisfaction in the relationship. Men and women often have affairs to improve their sex lives. Even though the relationship with a spouse is enjoyable in other ways, the sex is not fulfilling.
  • People want more sexual encounters than they currently have in their relationship.
  • Some spouses look for emotional intimacy as well as physical intimacy. They feel that an emotional connection is missing with their partner. In addition, some individuals feel that their relationship is growing apart; instead of stating what their needs are to their partner, they turn to affairs.
  • People claim that they fall out of love with their spouses.
  • The Internet offers fantasies online easily. Many websites are available where people can meet, and there are no questions asked.
  • Many people want to run from their problems instead of discussing them with their spouses. They often go into affairs for emotional reasons, which makes a coworker or a friend with a sympathetic ear seem desirable for an infidelity.
  • Facebook has contributed to infidelity, because people are able to meet others online. Some people contact their high school love and try to reignite the flame. The fantasy of “the grass is always greener” on the other side is a big factor in infidelity.
  • Partners in relationships may do the same thing day in and day out, including behind the closed doors of the bedroom. A lack of communication and intimacy results in boredom for many people, and they turn to experimenting with others.
  • When people are not married for the right reasons or don’t have much in common, they may run off to find somebody else who they find has more of the same likes and dislikes.
  • Some people have issues, such as a gain in weight as they grow older. The other spouse may opt to have an affair with somebody younger and more in shape.
  • When a person needs to be constantly reassured that they are loved, appreciated and wanted because of insecurities, the spouse may look for an affair. Sometimes the spouse feels that his partner is much too needy and becomes disinterested.
  • With the amount of travel for business and many people living elsewhere because of their jobs, the long periods away from a spouse may lead to an affair.

Tips for Victims of Infidelity

If you found out that your spouse had an affair, you may feel like you were just punched in the stomach. There are many emotions the victim of infidelity experiences, from anger and panic to betrayal and a sense of loss. The following are some tips that may help you through this difficult time.

  • Identify the emotions that you are experiencing. You should allow yourself to try to understand them and know they are normal.
  • Find time in your hectic daily routine to give yourself the chance to clear your mind. You can benefit from exercise, meditation or a walk.
  • Keep a journal or call a friend to help you deal with the feelings you have. However, if you find that the negativity of the situation is not going away even with the support of family and friends, it would be wise to seek professional help.
  • Speak to your partner about your emotions and the pain you are dealing with.

Can Counseling for Infidelity Help

If you’re experiencing the emotional rollercoaster as the result of infidelity, it’s important to vent your feelings in a safe and secure environment. A counselor will act as an impartial arbiter when you’re dealing with infidelity, guiding you and your partner toward resolution. The solution may involve separation, or it may be reconciliation. Regardless of the outcome, a counselor will strive to facilitate the best-possible resolution for you and your spouse.

Some positive news comes from a 2000 study by Dr. Shirley Glass, a psychologist who worked on redefining the nature of infidelity. She found that 71 percent of the couples she had seen in therapy after infidelity stayed together in the marriage.

At Thriveworks in Bristol, VA, a professional counselor or therapist will offer you and your partner support in dealing with infidelity and work with you to help foster a discussion about it. In addition, a therapist help you to identify other possible problems in the marriage, gain trust in your partner again, deal with feelings and needs in the marriage and work on ways to make the relationship strong again. Call Thriveworks Bristol at (423) 822-5099 today for an appointment, or go online to schedule your appointment today ,

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Abingdon accept 25 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Carelon | Medicare Advantage

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Abingdon
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

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Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

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5.0 Thriveworks Abingdon reviews are collected through Thriveworks.com.
★★★★★
I highly recommend Trish! She is very helpful, kind, compassionate and excellent at getting down to the roots of the problem. I have made more progress with her than I have with multiple therapists in several different cities. P.S--EMDR therapy sounds totally crazy, but it has significantly helped me. Give it a try!
Read more I highly recommend Trish! She is very helpful, kind, compassionate and excellent at getting down to the roots of the problem. I have made more progress with her than I have with multiple therapists in several different cities. P.S--EMDR therapy sounds totally crazy, but it has significantly helped me. Give it a try!
Bristol Mar 2018
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★★★★★
Dr Mike Pilcher took me under his wing and coached me through one of the biggest decisions of my life...opening a new business. At one point...well more than once...I felt like pulling my hair out and his calm demeanor and no BS approach really helped me get focused and confident. I was able to really pour on the steam and my business is doing well as a result. Dr. P is a great counselor and a man I respect. Call him...I still do to this day.
Read more Dr Mike Pilcher took me under his wing and coached me through one of the biggest decisions of my life...opening a new business. At one point...well more than once...I felt like pulling my hair out and his calm demeanor and no BS approach really helped me get focused and confident. I was able to really pour on the steam and my business is doing well as a result. Dr. P is a great counselor and a man I respect. Call him...I still do to this day.
Bristol Mar 2017
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Abingdon is located in the same building as Caris Healthcare. Across Russell Road NW is Empire Ford Used Car & Truck Center 2, and A Step Ahead salon, as well as All Things Custom and Sunshine Sewing & Screen Printing. Down the road is Figaredo’s restaurant and Northgate Pharmacy. We are located right near Porterfield Highway and Route 19, as well as Route 58.

Phone number

(423) 556-3873

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