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Alexander:
My go-to approach for helping couples in marriage counseling is to first establish a safe and supportive space. This involves building rapport and creating ground rules that foster respect for each other's boundaries and relationship needs. From this foundation, I focus on communication skills. Couples learn to effectively express their emotions, personal needs, and desires for the relationship. Additionally, we explore strategies for managing conflict productively, fostering collaboration, and finding win-win solutions.As a neutral third party, I don't take sides or resolve conflicts for couples. Instead, I empower couples to develop the tools they need to navigate challenges independently and collaboratively. While individual therapy issues may arise, I typically refer partners to individual therapists to address those concerns in a dedicated space. It's important to note that while I strive for neutrality, I may objectively point out serious issues impacting the relationship. The ultimate goal is to work with both partners to collaboratively resolve problems and build a stronger, healthier connection.
Manuel:
My go-to approaches for helping people in couples/marriage counseling are existential therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy. I find the benefit of existential therapy is that existential therapy focuses on free will, self-determination, and the search for meaning, which can help people confront the existential questions in life and find their own path. On the other hand, CBT is a more structured approach that helps people identify and challenge unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It’s widely recognized for its effectiveness in treating a variety of conditions, including anxiety and depression.
Alexander: I teach the following tools in couples/marriage counseling:
Manuel: I teach the following tools in couples/marriage therapy:
Alexander:
I know a couple is making meaningful progress in couples/marriage counseling when they can navigate conflict collaboratively and respectfully. They develop the ability to manage disagreements constructively, focusing on solutions rather than blaming each other. Communication also improves significantly. Partners become more proactive in expressing their needs and listen actively to each other without defensiveness or judgment. This fosters a safe space for open and honest communication, which is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship.Additionally, couples making progress demonstrate a shift in listening habits. They avoid taking things personally and instead focus on truly understanding their partner's perspective. This allows for constructive feedback and collaborative problem-solving, strengthening the relationship bond.
Manuel: As a therapist, recognizing meaningful progress in couples/marriage therapy can be multifaceted and often depends on the couples/marriage’s unique goals and circumstances. I know a client is making meaningful progress in couples/marriage therapy when:
Alexander:
Couples can significantly enhance their progress in therapy by fostering a safe and supportive environment outside of sessions. This involves respecting the confidentiality of what's discussed in therapy and avoiding weaponizing information discussed in therapy against each other. Open communication thrives when partners feel comfortable expressing themselves freely without fear of repercussions. Additionally, actively working toward the goals established during therapy demonstrates commitment and accelerates progress. Striking a healthy balance between quality time spent together and respecting individual space for personal growth is also crucial. This prevents codependency and allows both partners to be their own whole selves within the relationship, ultimately bringing their full strengths to the table.
Manuel:
Clients can supplement their time in couples/marriage therapy by consistently practicing the skills acquired during sessions, even outside of emotionally triggering situations. The principle of repetition serves as a fundamental mechanism for skill acquisition, and this holds true for mental health as well. Regular practice aids in the internalization of these skills, thereby enhancing their effectiveness and utility in managing mental health challenges.
Alexander:
To prepare for your first couple's/marriage counseling session, definitely be prepared to be open and honest about yourself within sessions. Conflict is really common within relationships and it's not always necessarily a bad thing. What's important is working together to resolve conflict in a mutually agreeable and respectful way. Coming to therapy sessions with an open mind and being ready to discuss your own genuine thoughts, feelings, boundaries, and expectations is necessary for smooth therapeutic progress. I also find that couples who are willing to take accountability and responsibility for their own actions without blaming their partners find significantly more consistent success within couples and marriage counseling sessions.
Manuel: To prepare for your first couples/marriage therapy session, you can:
Thriveworks Couples therapy helps couples work through their specific relationship issues. It is led by licensed professionals — often licensed marriage and family therapists (LMFTs) — who are experts in their field and best-equipped to help couples. Some examples of common focuses within couples therapy include:
Couples therapy works by helping couples identify and better navigate their unique challenges. Following an initial assessment of the couple in terms of strengths and needs, the therapist would then discuss their therapeutic goals and any possible approaches or ways of working together as therapist and couple.
Couples attend sessions together, whether they meet in person or by video. In addition to regular couples therapy sessions, each partner may also be asked to attend a few individual sessions to supplement their progress. This will allow their counselor to get to know each individual better, assess each of their personal needs, and develop the very best treatment plan moving forward.
Couples therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you and your partner.
On average, couples attend couples therapy for 12 weeks. However, couples therapy may last longer or shorter, dependent on the couples’ needs, the challenges they’d like to work through, and the pace of their progress.
It is true: every couple faces difficulty. For many couples, those ups and downs are opportunities to grow both individually and as partners. Those ups and downs also test how much a couple trusts each other. When that trust needs to be reinforced, couples therapists can often help. That is why Thriveworks Newark Counseling offers couples therapy. Every couple will face hard times, and during those hard times, many couples are reaching out for help. If you think you could benefit from couples therapy, you should reach out too. Thriveworks Newark is here to help.
When couples experience tension in their relationship, they often feel alone in the struggle. They may think, other couples do not struggle with this issue. What is wrong with us? The truth is that many couples are experiencing similar issues. Certain issues tend to put strain upon a relationship, and most couples will feel those strains at some point. The particular details may be unique and different from couple to couple, but the overarching issue it not. What are some common issues that drive a wedge between partners?
Did you recognize any issue on this list? You issue may be disagreements about the in-laws, differing expectations, or distrust, or something completely different. Whatever you and your partner may be facing, a couples therapist may be able to help. How?
Are you and your partner ready to reach out for help? If so, you are not alone. If you are experiencing tension or disagreement or distrust, know that these are common issues that many couples face. Couples counseling is not a magic formula, but many partners have overcome these issues and now enjoy a stronger relationship.
If you are ready to get started, Thriveworks Newark offers couples therapy, and we have appointments available. When you contact our office, you may be meeting with your therapist the same week. We offer weekend and evening sessions. We also accept many forms of insurance. We know that being a couple is hard. Scheduling couples counseling should not be. Call today.
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