How do I deal with two big losses — my relationship and my job? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Aug 3, 2022 | Ask a Therapist, Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Q: My ex girlfriend and I were kind of dating and then she met someone else that she started having feelings for. She told me this morning that she wants to pursue things with him. I am feeling very sad, desperate and don’t know what to do. I also just…