What loss has taught me: Losing a loved one is a painful experience, but it’s also one to learn from by Taylor Bennett | Aug 30, 2018 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Losing a loved one is dreadfully painful, but there is a flip side to every coin. In this case: there is much to learn from those tough losses. First, it can change the way you live your very life—it might dawn on you that you should live happier, or kinder,…
Where there is grief there was love: losing someone is never easy, but it helps to focus on all the good they’ve brought you by Roselyn Smith, PhD | Aug 30, 2018 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Losing a loved one is nothing short of devastating, but there is a lot of good to focus on during this time, which can help you come to terms with the loss. First, take this opportunity to learn a greater compassion for others (and thyself)—recognize their struggles, and also observe…
My grief feels too painful to bear—if you’re struggling with the loss of a loved one, consider these tactics or grief counseling by Taylor Bennett | Aug 28, 2018 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Grief is an incredibly difficult as well as unpredictable process—which means that it looks different for everybody. We must all learn how to grieve effectively, through strategies that work specifically for us and our situation. That being said, there are healthy tactics that are important for any grieving individual to…
Talking to Kids About the Loss of a Loved One: 6 Professional Tips by Taylor Bennett | Mar 16, 2018 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Dealing with the loss of a loved one is hard at any age—but it can be especially confusing and difficult for kids. They’re still growing, developing, and learning about the world around them, and being confronted with a traumatic event like this can be particularly challenging. Therefore, it’s important you…
How to help a grieving loved one or friend (Updated) by Taylor Bennett | Feb 7, 2018 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics We define and we dissect the grieving process: first, the grieving individual will experience denial, followed by anger; then bargaining and a bout of depression; and lastly, acceptance. Once they’ve progressed through these five stages they’ll be A-Okay, good to go—right? Wrong. Grief can’t be so simply defined or explained…
The 5 Stages of Grief & Loss: Fact From Fiction by Lenora KM | Jun 28, 2017 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics There are five stages of grief, and people across the globe experience them. It doesn’t matter what race, religion, country or the economic status of an individual—we all grieve for a person and the relationship shared with them. Sometimes a person feels grief over the loss of a dearly beloved…
Surviving Post-Election Grief by Carin Goodrich, M.A., LPC | Nov 14, 2016 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Whether you are Hillary supporter or just an “anti-Trumpite” you are probably reeling from the results of the election. Waking up to see that the candidate you vehemently opposed actually won was probably shocking and upsetting. You may have been in utter disbelief. Maybe you thought there were still more…
The holidays can intensify grief: Here are 9 tips for managing by Amber Shimel | Oct 17, 2016 | Coping Skills, Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics During the holiday season, we think of family traditions, making memories, and spending time with loved ones. However, the holiday season can cause feelings of grief to become much more intense. The loss of a loved one can make even the most joyful celebrations difficult to bear, no matter how…
There is a Hole in My Heart – Losing a Friend by Dawn Gaden, M.A., LPC, NCC | Mar 17, 2016 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics, Relationships I have lost a friend today. And now where there used to be love, and friendship, and laughter, and tears, and joy… there is now a big empty hole. What the #($%*&$# do I do now? I feel lost, hopeless, helpless, scared, sad and lonely. What do I do? The…
Understanding Grief & Loss in Adoption by Lisa Lewis | Aug 24, 2015 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics, Parenting Understanding Grief & Loss in Adoption; Are You Feeling… Loss, Frustrated, Anxious , Sad, Angry, Jealousy, Denial, Shame, Relationship Stress, Lack of Control? The experience of adoption is often bitter sweet. Adoption can be a new baby for the adoptive parents, a new family for the adoptee and the solution…